in response to Neil Hampshire...   Sir. I am a christian, and I have NEVER gone out of my way to reply to these chats; never have, but I felt compelled to communicate I will severely pray for YOU for forgiveness of your judgemental SPIRIT. The way to elevate people and help them find a better/Christian way is to pray for them, LOVE and SERVE them and be an EXAMPLE of a better way of life. I am sure she is doing the best she can with given circumstances!!! Help her and she will change her ways, judge her without the belief that GOD will redeem her is not good and Christlike on your part, so I merly suggest walking in love, serving her by helping with the money and ALLOW GOD to continue to work on her to mold and shape her to be a Godly Woman of God and a positive contribution to her child and society...she is very young (19)??? let God help her.